Where do your pets sleep? Mine get to choose
By Dr. Marty Becker
March 19, 2010
There’s my “side” of the bed, and Teresa’s “side,” and then there’s the overwhelming majority of the nighttime real estate, which is owned by our dogs.
Yes, the Beckers let their dogs and cats sleep on their beds. We also allow them on the sofas, or, as Quora, right, and Quixote refer to them, “the dogs’ sofas.”
We’re not alone. The American Pet Products Association reports that 62 percent of cats and small dogs, and a smaller percentage of larger dogs, sleep on their owners’ beds.
Some experts warn that letting your dogs sleep on the bed with you will create behavior problems. Others contend it can make allergies worse. We’ve never had those problems, but we have to admit there is one small downside to surrendering the vast majority of our mattress to the dogs: Neither of us has had a good night sleep in the last couple of decades.
That’s right. The dogs wake up every morning, refreshed and rejuvenated, and Teresa and I stumble out of bed bleary-eyed and groggy. Teresa fortunately looks beautiful even without eight hours of restful sleep. I’m not so lucky.
If I’m ever tempted to change the sleeping arrangements, all I have to do is hit the road, which I do constantly, flying to veterinary conferences or to film “Good Morning America” or the “Dr. Oz Show,” or even just going on vacation, as Teresa, our son Lex and I are right now.
Teresa and I have all these hotel room beds to ourselves. We can stretch out, cuddle in the middle of the mattress, and move our legs around all we want. What we can’t do is get warm little dog kisses, see their eyes light up with happiness when they see us there first thing in the morning, or feel the comfort of a furry dog body when we crawl into bed after a freezing cold midnight bathroom trip.
And when we come back to the hotel room at night, there’s no four-footed, tail-wagging welcoming committee there to tell us how much we were missed and how wonderful it is that we’re back.
The way we see it, the unconditional love they give us every hour of every day is worth a little missed sleep.
What about you? Where do your pets sleep? And why?



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