Good Faith efforts: Six tips for raising a great puppy
By Gina Spadafori
June 29, 2009
I don’t raise puppies very often. Most of the dog I’ve shared my life with have come to me as adults — McKenzie and her daughter Faith the notable exceptions.
Faith and her siblings were born in my bedroom 12 weeks ago today. They’re all doing very well, thanks to their new families, all of whom have a great of experience with working retrievers.
But still, I bet they’re like me, reviewing all the information to make sure they don’t forget something important as they raise their new puppies. In addition to my own books, including “Dogs For Dummies,” I’ve been checking out some of my favorite puppy-care writings. In our own free pet-care library powered by a grant from Pfizer Animal Health, I found this nifty little piece from my friends Susan and Dr. Rolan Tripp. (Pictured with the puppies a few weeks ago.)
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Get your puppy off to a great start
By Susan Tripp, MS, and Dr. Rolan Tripp
Puppies constantly try new behaviors to see what pays off for them. In the wild, this early trial-and-error form of learning would be critical for survival. In our homes, constantly trying new things is how a puppy learns to fit in with his new family.
Think about what puppies do from a puppy’s point of view and you’ll know they’re not just trying to be naughty. “If I bang on the food dish, will I get fed?” “If I put my paws on your knees, do I get your attention?” “If I sit under the table when you are eating, do I get handouts?” Puppies are always carefully noting the results of their behavior, and things that work to their benefit will certainly be repeated, for good or bad.
When you let your puppy choose his own way to communicate what he needs and wants, you are more likely to end up with a dog whose rude behaviors annoy you. That’s why it’s essential to take control of your puppy’s peak learning period — before the age of 16 weeks — and teach him how to behave on your terms, not his.
We’ve distilled what you need to know into six easy rules so you can help guide your puppy through the important period of early learning.
- Supervise your puppy. Punishing a puppy before he knows right from wrong is unfair. The biggest mistake people make in the first 24 hours home is allowing the pup to roam the house freely, punishing him when a mess is found. Instead, supervise your puppy. When you can catch the circle-and-sniff behavior, carry the pup outdoors to the designated potty area. When you can’t watch your puppy, limit his roaming to a small bathroom or laundry room with a crate on one end for naps and a doggy potty area on the other with non-destructible chew toys in the middle.
- Show the puppy what’s right. Don’t just run around yelling, “No! No! No!” Instead, teach your puppy what’s acceptable, and reward him for doing right. Puppies can learn to come, sit, lie down, wait, watch, stay and even do tricks beginning at 8 weeks of age. Reinforce a puppy’s good behavior with food, toys and attention, and your pup will become an attentive pupil.
- Teach your puppy adult dog rules. When large breed dogs are puppies, having them put their paws up is both cute and convenient. But it’s unfair and unrealistic to expect a puppy to realize the rules change when he gets larger. If you don’t want a 130-pound bull mastiff putting his paws up on people or his big fanny on your couch, the time to teach him is when he’s a puppy. It’s always easier to teach good behaviors than to correct unwanted ones.
- Don’t hit your puppy, ever. Begin a hand-feeding routine that includes gently massaging him while you feed him. Your puppy needs to learn your hands are powerful but never a threat. Lift your puppy like a toddler, feet dangling, and hug him. Hold your pup tighter if he wiggles, and release him as soon as he relaxes. Teach your puppy a little frustration tolerance, but never allow him to panic or feel pain.
- Teach your puppy not to bite. During play, teach him gentle mouthing with a cue word such as “gently.” Once your puppy knows what “gently” means, you can teach him not to mouth you at all. Provide non-destructible chew toys and praise all appropriate chewing. And don’t play tug-of-war games until your pup has learned to sit and give a toy on request.
- Take field trips. Give your puppy friendly introductions to as many people, other animals, places and things as possible. Give praise for bravery and friendly behaviors you want to encourage. Teach your pup to sit to greet people. Even better: Take your puppy to a puppy socialization class, and consider a reputable day-care program.
Seem like a lot of work? You bet it is! But the effort you put into raising your puppy properly will pay off with good behavior for life.
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So what’s your favorite book or other reference for raising a puppy right? Let us know!

The Monks of New Skete’s The Art of Raising a Puppy.
Flame on.
Tied with Mother Knows Best by Carol Lea Benjamin.
Runners-Up: Daniel Pinkwater’s Superpuppy and Rutherford and Neil’s How to Raise a Puppy You Can Live With.
The last is actually a better guide for breeders, and for selecting a pup from a breeder who covers all the important bases they outline, since it goes over the neonatal/transitional/socialization periods of development.
For eggheads, Scott & Fuller’s Genetics and Social Behavior of the Dog as well as Clarence Pfaffenberger’s popularization included in The New Knowledge of Dog Behavior.
But srsly? Follow either one of the first two books, and you will do fine.
Comment by H. Houlahan — June 29, 2009 @ 6:54 am
“It’s always easier to teach good behaviors than to correct unwanted ones.”
Maybe one of the best and truest things the trainer I worked with told me when Niki was a puppy.
If I could only tell people adopting a puppy at the shelter one thing, this would be on my short list.
Comment by Susan Fox — June 29, 2009 @ 7:08 am
I posted the above, and hopped into the shower. Got out, looked for the towel. No towel.
Hmmmm … Didn’t I just take a clean one out of the linen closet?
Faaaaaaaaiiiiiiiittttthhhhhhhhh!
Comment by Gina Spadafori — June 29, 2009 @ 7:23 am
A copy of Mother Knows Best must be in the home and reading well underway before I let a puppy go home.
It has saved so much angst for myself, the dog and the owners over the years!
Comment by JenniferJ — June 29, 2009 @ 7:50 am
Well this book is a no-brainer for raising my new puppy:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/7.....146176757/
Others that I really like, especially for brand new dog owners are Brian Kilcommons and Sara Wilson’s books, “Good Owners, Great Dogs” and “My Smart Puppy”. Both have lots of info on management as well as training. I think that’s helpful as it seems like a lot of problems occur with puppies due to failure to manage their environments and/or their schedules.
Comment by Katie Bruesewitz — June 29, 2009 @ 7:59 am
Awwwww. Puppy Zin! And now, he’s “helping” to raise his son Parker!
I had to pull out that book and re-read the chapters on puppy-raising. I wrote it 13 years ago, and would love to update it. But in general, it has held up pretty well.
:)
I also like Carol Lea Benjamin’s “Mother Knows Best.”
Comment by Gina Spadafori — June 29, 2009 @ 8:14 am
May I publish this in our obedience club newsletter, giving proper credit to the authors? This has some really great information in it.
Comment by Dutch — June 29, 2009 @ 9:22 am
Please write and ask the Tripps for permission: rtripp@animalbehavior.net
Comment by Gina Spadafori — June 29, 2009 @ 9:43 am
Gina, I know that is a little off topic, but would you ever consider writing a post what to do if a dog gets off a leash and gets lost or if a cat wonders out of a yard and cannot be found. Lots of animals are getting lost this summer, and I am sure the shelters are getting overwhelmed.
On a personal note, I know a family that has lost a cat, and I was trying to advise said family as best as I could.
My cat is the best behaved cat, by the way, until she wants what I do not want her to have!
:)—even with the heat :)
Comment by Colorado Transplant — June 29, 2009 @ 10:14 am
For specificly targeting puppy owners I like “Parenting your dog” by Trish King.
For anyone getting the Monks of New Skete book make sure you get the newest version. The old ones have the (now recanted by them) alpha roll idiocy in them.
Comment by Marie — June 29, 2009 @ 7:57 pm
great article, can i publish some parts of it on my website
Comment by Pet — July 2, 2009 @ 8:59 pm
See comment No. 8. :)
Comment by Gina Spadafori — July 3, 2009 @ 6:12 am